
I have to admit, eating lobsters with
their shell still on would be a messy affair on the thanksgiving
table. And if you're like me who like to dig in without thinking of
how I look, it can be really disastrous – especially if you're
meeting your significant other's family for the first time. So I'm
going to switch to my Mr. Manners hat and give you a couple of quick
tips:
Put a napkin on your lap.
Don't get overwhelmed by the silverware
if there's a lot. Remember the age old saying, start from the outside
and work your way in.
Begin only when everyone on the table
is served and after a prayer of thanks (this is thanksgiving after
all! Don't worry your host would be leading or giving directions for
this.)
Drink from the glasses on your right.
If the beverage is served in a stemmed
glass, pick it up from the stem.
Your bread plate is on the left.
When you're eating a roll or bread make
sure to break it into bite size piece.
Bring your mouth to the food, not the
other way around!
Never place used utensils back on the
table. Keep it in the saucer or your dinner plate.
Hold the utensils with consideration so
they don't fall off or fly off.
When you're cutting up food keep your
elbows close to your body.
There are two ways of cutting your food
– the European or Continental way and the American way.
In the American way, you hold the fork
with your left hand – holding the food firmly and cut it with the
knife in the right hand. Switch the fork to your right hand to eat.
In the European way, you do the same
thing but you have the food with your left (that's easier don't you
think?) Only reach for items that are in front
of you.
Politely ask others to pass items that
are out of your reach.
When you're passing items yourself,
pass them to your left. But if there's a general pattern already
developed follow that.
Eat your entire meal if possible. It's
disrespectful to leave a large amount of food behind.
Place the knife and fork at 4 o'clock
to signal that you're done.
Don't get up from the table until
everyone is done.
Never put your elbows on the table.
Never talk with your mouth full. |